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Choose her every day (or leave her)

A Life-Changing Guide That’s Redefining Modern Love

With over 380+ ★★★★★ reviews on Amazon

Life changing
"I have read a lot of relationship books and I've done two marriage courses which all had really good information and helpful things. This book actually got to the cause of what my wife has been pleading with me about all the time..."

This is a life-changing roadmap for men...

(And women) ready to do love differently. When bestselling author and relationship coach Bryan Reeves hit rock bottom in love at 36, he realized he had no idea how to do intimacy right. That brutal moment became the beginning of everything.

Through raw stories, personal revelations, and proven relationship tools, Bryan shares how he rebuilt his capacity for real love—from avoidance and self-protection to presence, truth, and devotion.

This isn’t just another relationship book—it’s a mirror, a teacher, and a call to courage. If you’re ready to stop repeating the same painful patterns and finally experience the depth of connection you’ve been craving, start here.

Over 380+ 5 star reviews on Amazon.com

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This book will hug you! I was so moved!
"I was so enthralled by this book that I read it in 3 sittings. I would have read it faster but I had to go to work and make dinner and sleep." I truly believe this book could help everyone be a more relatable and compassionate human. We can all benefit from these words, whether you are single, coupled, self aware or struggling. Bryan’s book took me on a journey of deep healing and love. It was like he hugged my inner child with words of support. I felt validated, heard and understood and now have a better outlook of how others need to feel this too. This isn’t the standard self help, relationship book. Bryan really gets to the core of masculine and feminine energy and how this plays out in the lives of all of us. I really connected with the theme of wanting a loving connection, while also yearning for freedom. He walks us through living our best lives with vulnerability and breaks down our confusions through an honest, direct, down to earth and gentle journey. As much as this book discusses love, it is not at all sappy. He makes this topic so approachable and accessible that no matter where you are on your path this book can help you to understand how to move forward right now in a way that makes sense to you while still being present for the people you love. This is one reason why the book is great no matter what your gender or life experience is. He offers uplifting nuggets of wisdom coupled with deeply grounded statements of the reality of life, which makes this book both easy and compelling to read. Reading this brought up a lot of emotions for me, but also soothed me through these moments at the same time! This is the magic of Bryan’s writing. I felt so comforted while reading this and didn’t want it to end. I am truly moved and I am grateful to have read it.

Life changing
"Reviewed in the United States on I have read a lot of relationship books and I've done two marriage courses which all had really good information and helpful things. This book actually got to the cause of what my wife has been pleading with me about all the time This book goes into why partners have issues in the first place on a fundamental level. I would suggest this book for everybody. The sections are easy to consume and when I got to the halfway point in the book I couldn't put it down. I love my wife but I have struggled to understand why I'm not more romantic, why i couldn't enthusiastically give her the affection i wanted to give her. Why was i holding back? This book helped me understand and have a major breakthrough! Our relationship is going to take a lot of work but now I'm ready! Understanding is what I needed and this book finally gave me that!"

Wow
"I think we might be in the process of saving an 8 year partnership using this book. It’s not the only resource of course, but wow. As a woman, I felt so seen by much of it so far, and a little uncomfy by others (but in a way I need to face). I was afraid my partner would hate it, but he gave it a chance and after reading 8 or 9 chapters he is excited to continue reading and discuss. All that to say this book managed to get through to both of us in ways that others could not. Even if our relationship doesn’t work for whatever reason, I’m going to make sure we both have access to a copy because I feel it’s important. If I had one wish it would be to find the female twin to this author so I could read her work too. Thank you!! Its not what I was expecting but I feel like this is the most important book I’ve purchased in years and I’m grateful."

Reviews of Bryan’s Writings

“Everything you say about relationships make 100% sense and opened my eyes to a deeper, more detailed view of myself and my partner. Your words always pop-up like an omen in my life, exactly when I need them.”

“When I read ‘Choose Her Every Day’ I closed my computer and wept – that was written by me, for me, all about me. You’ll never know how grateful I am. You not only bring insight that few others have, you bring hope.”

“Your words continue to inspire me every day. Your wisdom has helped me to experience some of the happiest days of my life, and some of the most love-filled. I am a better human for it!”

Check out Bryan's other 4,5 STAR review book "Tell the truth" below

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Tell the truth - Let the peace fall where it may

Tell the Truth, Let the Peace Fall Where it May is about coming clean down to the roots of your being. It’s about walking through the world, through your entire life, in the fullness of who you really are. You were born for greatness. But you can’t build greatness on a foundation of bullshit.

This book is about three essential things:
1. How and why most people live disconnected from their authentic truth everyday.
2. what that chronic disconnection costs in joy, intimacy, fulfillment, vitality and more.
3. what it could look like to live every moment in our authentic truth.

Can't thank Bryan enough for this book
"This book is a must read for everyone on this planet. I'm not even half way through this book yet and it has already changed my life. His emphasis on self honesty, on facing myself hits me like a ton of bricks with every few pages I read. I swear, I read a few pages and then put it down because I can only handle so much of Bryan's honesty. It is so raw and real."

get to know the author

Bryan Reeves

A former US Air Force Captain, Bryan Reeves is now an internationally renowned Author and Life/Relationship Coach with a current focus on supporting men to have better lives and relationships. His viral blog has been read by over 50 million people in every country on the planet (except North Korea).

Bryan is the co-founder of “Elevate Your Relationship”, a live coaching program for men ready to elevate their relationship game, which currently serves men in 10 countries.

He’s co-host of the popular podcast, “Men, This Way”, and author of two books, “Choose Her Every Day (Or Leave Her)” and “Tell The Truth, Let The Peace Fall Where It May.”