Somewhere along my journey from military soldier to spiritual warrior, through the dank hells of heartbreak and despair – and with the help of a psychedelic experience or two – I rediscovered the thrill of being alive, and the beautiful life I came here to live. After triumphing through darkness and despair, I laugh more than I ever did as a child.
I’m a regular contributor to various blogs worldwide, including Good Men Project, Elephant Journal, Raw Attraction Magazine, Sexy Conscious Awake, and am currently finishing my second book, “Tell The Truth, Let The Peace Fall Where It May.“
♦◊♦ No one ever taught me how to “be in my heart” (or what that even means). My relationships have often suffered horribly as a result. Like most men (many women, too) I’ve been conditioned to live in my head, to use my brain to solve any problem that presents itself. And actually, I was…
Details♦◊♦ Woman, I know you have been hearing for a lifetime that you’re too much … … too needy, too loud, too opinionated, too demanding, too happy, too sad, too large, too emotional, too expressive, too whatever. So you learned to shrink yourself in countless ways, to disappear or somehow deny your true full expression as a…
Details♦◊♦ “If I tell you the real truth about me, you won’t love me.” That single thought has driven me to madness for most of my life. It’s like having a nasty little thought-vampire living in my head with fangs like dagger straws sucking out the oxygen-rich blood that would otherwise fuel clarity in my…
Details♦◊♦ I’m headed to Ireland on Tuesday for 5 weeks with my lovely woman, Silvy. I’m only bringing a few books, cozy slippers and some clothes, our Vitamix and my laptop. My intention is to create my next online program there while enjoying the wonders of the Emerald Isle with Silvy (she’s utterly enraptured by…
Details♦◊♦ This is the inspiring, unlikely story of how I met, Silvy, the woman I’ve waited a lifetime for … in the middle of nowhere. It was pure magic. For when we met, I was all alone in a cabin in the splendid middle of nowhere. I called her in. And she came … quickly. I…
Details♦◊♦ Are you fed up with NOT being enthusiastically chosen every day in your intimate relationship? Since “Choose Her Every Day (or Leave Her)” went viral in 2015, I’ve heard from countless disheartened women (and men) all over the world about their painful experiences with intimate partners who aren’t very enthusiastic about “doing relationship” with them. I was surprised to…
Details♦◊♦ “I care about your feelings.“ That’s what my girlfriend said to me after a recent uncomfortable conversation. My first thought was, “I don’t even care about my feelings. Why should you?” As I watched myself dismiss my own feelings (I wasn’t really “fine“), that’s when I had a profound insight about how deeply “the masculine” in…
Details♦◊♦ Throughout my adult life, no woman ever broke up with me that I didn’t want or even subtly encourage to leave. Nope. I was the one who ended relationships. I see now I was also the one who never really showed up for relationships. I only finally saw this recently … after my girlfriend broke up with me.…
Details♦◊♦ (note: this happens in all relationships, straight or otherwise. It’s actually a masculine-feminine dynamic, not a man-woman dynamic.) I’ve discovered a tragic cycle in intimacy: WOMAN routinely lets man know he’s “not enough” (doesn’t feel enough; not emotional enough; not expressive enough; often combined with he can’t get it/do it right). Having no idea how to please her,…
Details♦◊♦ Recently, I wrote this popular post on Facebook: I’m single. Committed single. Until life drops an exquisite woman onto my path with whom it is just undeniable to the core of my being that this is the woman I was born to create worlds with. But I get this question a lot: “Why aren’t you…
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