Expand your world … consistently!

I just spent 6 days discovering how … mmm, unskilled … I have lived much my life. Particularly in my intimate relationships with women.

I was in an extraordinary seminar called Date With Destiny, with Tony Robbins. If you know him as a motivational speaker … you don’t know him.

Tony Robbins has masterfully unlocked many secrets to our humanity. He has collected simple maps that describe why we do what we do, and more importantly, what we can do about it. He de-hypnotizes people (by first brilliantly hypnotizing them). I’m awake to so many of my past unconscious behaviors that just get in the way of me living fully. Tony creates opportunities for people to learn about themselves in ways I’ve never seen before.

But this is not a promo for Tony.

I simply wish to impart upon you the importance of constantly learning.

Keep exploring. Read books (here’s some of my favorites). If life ever feels stagnant or you’re aching for a breakthrough, go to a seminar, attend a workshop, go sit on a mountain top for 4 days alone and without food or water, or just hire a life coach whose done all those things and absurdly more for over 20 years (like me).

Do SOMETHING to expand your world … Consistently.

Make 2014 your Big Year of Personal Growth!

My 2013 theme was “Go Big or Go Homeless!” (I’m working on 2014.)

Decide that, by next December, your life is going to be richer, more fulfilling, more joyful, more “HELL YES!!!” than ever before … and then explore your passions to discover what actions would support that proclamation coming true.

This seminar last week has shifted my life course. You will see. I’m going to reorient my blogging towards conscious relationships. As a man-boy, I’ve made most all the relationships mistakes that immature man-boys make, except cheating. I’ve never cheated on a partner, but I have lied, run away (and then came back and ran-away again), been wishy-washy, treated my woman like she’s a man, reneged on my word, put her 5th … I’ve failed to step up as a man in a thousand ways. I’ve been a toddler playing house. Thankfully, I love to learn. So now I’m called to turn my insight on that most thrilling journey deep into the heart of humans relating, the masculine-feminine dance of being, relationships as our path to awakening. I know this is the right way forward because it both absolutely titillates my insides and scares me in all the right ways … because it will bring me to the farthest edges of my truth. I love doing my jig along that mysterious edge, even when I fall off.

Whatever your 2014 theme, make sure it excites and inspires you – and scares you, too.

If your dream doesn’t scare you, it isn’t big enough.*

What is your 2014 theme?

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p.s. I do Life Breakthrough Coaching. Make 2014 your Year of Big Breakthroughs. Contact me for a free breakthrough session. I love helping people get Life all over them.

* originator of this quote unknown