Men – or more correctly, the more masculine partner in a relationship, which could be a woman – consistently make one major mistake in every relationship argument:
We engage our partner at the “level of the complaint.”
We completely miss what our partner really needs to hear from us. Address this and own your partner (poetically speaking only).
** this happens in all relationships, straight or otherwise. It’s a masculine-feminine dynamic, not a man-woman dynamic.
Watch these 2 videos to learn more: