107. Men Aren’t Prepared For Real Intimacy w/ Mark Groves

Today I’m talking with my old friend, Mark Groves, founder of “Create The Love,” the massively successful Instagram Page and Community dedicated to helping people create inspired and inspiring relationships.  This is actually a rebroadcast of an episode Mark and I did on HIS podcast.  I just love my conversations with Mark, and in this … Read more

106. Fathers, Sons, and Rites of Passage w/ Luke Entrup

In today’s episode, I engage in a profound conversation with the founder of “The Father Son Connection Experience,” Luke Entrup. We discuss various topics related to men and emotions, fathers and sons, and rites of passage for boys at different ages.  HIGHLIGHTS (brought to you by … obviously … AI!) (00:00) Intro (07:03) Some significant … Read more

100. Stop Playing Son To Your Father w/ John Lee

Are you still wanting (even subconsciously) your father to “show up”? Are you angry at your father, or resigned from him, and yet something still nags at you about it? Do you have any wise elders you can consistently look up to, whom you can trust to help you navigate difficult situations? I am incredibly … Read more

94. How Men’s Fears of Women Shape Their Intimate Relationships w/ Dr. Avrum Weiss

Have you ever considered that you might might be afraid of women? Have you ever felt afraid of a woman’s emotions? Or your own? Do you ever walk on eggshells around women, and do you loathe that? In this episode Dr. Avrum Weiss and I explore these questions and more to provide useful insights that … Read more

"I Don’t Want Drama" (Beware Of The Man Who Says This)

When a man (or woman) says “I don’t want drama,” he is essentially saying, “I am terrified of feeling out of control, and I cannot be with anyone who feels feelings or acts in ways that are beyond my current capacity to feel or simply outside my tiny stress-free comfort zone.”

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True Transformation = Embracing the Void

“We can hear God speak to us when it is silent.”~ Movie Quote (“I Am Legend”) I’m driving to Death Valley tonight with my music artist, Ash Ruiz, for a desert sunrise photo shoot at 430am.  Driving to Death Valley is powerfully symbolic for me as I’m in the chaotic throws of a deep transformational

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"It's often scary to let you truly know me. … Same for you?"

This blog is an ongoing discovery into how authentic I’m truly ready to be with you. Or not ready. What am I truly willing to confess publicly … forever? I’m certainly discovering there is no such thing as an “objective truth” to share, anyway. For all my experiences, there are seemingly infinite filters through which

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