Design Your Life Today

“Action without Vision is ignorance … … Vision without Action is impotence.”* The idea of setting goals and scheduling my life … well, it bores me. However, I’ve recently started “designing my life” … thanks to an insight my own personal life coach helped me discover, and I’m so inspired that I want to share

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My "Woman Fast" – DAY 30 – The Last Day

I did it. “What did you do?” you ask. Why, I completed a 30-day woman fast, of course. Where’ve you been? “Yeah .. seriously .. what in Eve’s name does that even mean?” you respond, completely perplexed. Ahhhh … a fair and cleverly articulated question. As I’ve assured you before – and perhaps this lady doth

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My "Woman Fast" – Day 25 – Breaking Patterns

I went dancing a few days ago and quickly found myself surrounded by painfully hot hot hot ladies dressed in … let’s say, enterprising ways … specifically designed to arrest my attention like it was a fugitive from the law. Then today, I ate lunch with 3 beautiful, amazing women. Did I mention I’m on a

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Sex, Scandals, and Living our Truth

What deeper truth(s) are you denying? What is that likely costing you? So many of us haven’t been confessing our socially-awkward truths for a long time, around a lot of things, but especially around sexuality. Not to the people around us, and often not even to ourselves. We’re persistently denying deeply-stirring desires, hiding fears and

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My “Woman Fast” – Day 16 – Observations

Caution: This post contains some graphic content and passionate language. I’m on a complete “woman fast”. I’m rather aroused … but you’re still safe with me. Promise … especially if you made it through Fifty Shades of Grey. I’m now 16 days into my 30-day woman fast (as the original blog explains, it’s not just about sex.

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Why I'm giving up women for 30 days

I started a 30-day “woman fast” 7 days ago. Scoff if you must. “Wow, 30 full days,” you say sarcastically as your eyes roll and your empathy shrivels. But this is what it means: no dates, no sex, no actual flirting, no making out, no strategic loitering in the yogurt aisle or after yoga class,

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Great ideas happen where Vision meets Reality

My best ideas come when I first get deeply honest about the gap between what I actually see and what I want to see. I take in and acknowledge reality, the world I see around and within me at this moment; and then overlay that reality with my dream, my vision, what I want to

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Putting yourself out there is supposed to be scary

I’m always a bit nervous when I hit “Publish” on a blog. I never know how these words are going to be received by you. Like most creators, I want more than anything that you embrace my every creation like some precious discovered treasure glinting resplendent in your eyes that you can’t help but stare

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How do you want to die?

Most doctors, yes MOST DOCTORS, would OUTRIGHT REFUSE life-saving interventions (CPR, life support, feeding tubes, etc.) because they know how brutal and futile end-of-life care can be, and what little chance of meaningful success it typically offers. There’s a fascinating NPR RadioLab podcast about that @ http://www.radiolab.org/blogs/radiolab-blog/2013/jan/15/bitter-end/ The rest of this essential blog about the

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