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Sometimes The Best Gift Is Leaving Your Partner

October 9, 2018June 2, 2016

♦◊♦ Throughout my adult life, no woman ever broke up with me that I didn’t want or even subtly encourage to leave. Nope. I was the one who ended intimate relationships. I see now I was also the one who never fully showed up for those relationships. But I only finally realized this after a woman

Thank You For Leaving Me

May 16, 2024April 27, 2016

♦◊♦ A few weeks ago I awoke from a morning dream in which my girlfriend broke up with me. Later that day, she broke up with me. We were moving through some rough weather at our 6-month mark; nothing I thought catastrophic. I was sure we’d get thru. Then she ended it. I was devastated. I did not

Stop This Tragic Cycle In Your Relationship

June 25, 2020April 19, 2016

♦◊♦ (note: this happens in all relationships, straight or otherwise. It’s actually a masculine-feminine dynamic, not a man-woman dynamic.) I’ve discovered a tragic cycle in intimacy: WOMAN routinely lets man know he’s “not enough” (doesn’t feel enough; not emotional enough; not expressive enough; often combined with he can’t get it/do it right). Having no idea how to please her,

Find a Great Relationship (by Committing to Being Single)

October 9, 2018March 31, 2016

♦◊♦ UPDATE: Just 4 months after I originally wrote this, I met the most exquisite woman I’ve been waiting a lifetime for. We’re engaged now … so take this to heart! : ) ♦◊♦ Recently, I wrote this popular post on Facebook: I’m single. Committed single. Until life drops an exquisite woman onto my path with whom

3 Categories of Male Sexual Disorientation

August 23, 2019January 11, 2016

♦◊♦ Most men have no idea of the true power of sex. Most of us use orgasm as a means to merely release tension in the body, to get out of our heads for a few minutes and relax our restless brains. We too often use women, porn, or other men, to distract ourselves from

What is an Awakening Man?

August 10, 2018November 17, 2015

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=haaVcrvqL-w&feature=youtu.be ♦◊♦ Reflections on an Awakening Man An “Awakening Man” wants a woman who will speak her truth to him, a woman who knows men aren’t equipped to read minds or even not-so-subtle clues. He also wants her to hold him accountable to his highest potential, which she instinctively sees in him (don’t you, ladies?!)

Does Your Partner Feel Safe With You?

June 25, 2020November 5, 2015

Your partner is always telling you either …

“I feel safe with you” … or

“I do not feel safe with you.“

Learning to hear what they’re really saying can change everything for both of you!

You’re Ready For All of Her, You’re a Goddamn Warrior

September 3, 2018October 28, 2015

♦◊♦ My dear proud brother, I know why you’ve always struggled to truly, fully love every woman you’ve ever wanted to truly, fully love. I know why every romance you ever indulged in for more than a sweet, fleeting moment soon threatened to overwhelm you. I know why you still sometimes feel the urge to

16 Massive Life Lessons I Learned in the Australian Outback

July 10, 2018October 12, 2015

♦◊♦ My recent Walkabout adventure in the Australian Outback was truly extraordinary. Spending a week on deep retreat in that ancient desert with my coach and her husband unleashed massive new insights in me for living an extraordinary life fueled by an embodied mindset of Love. In many cases, these insights were simply a deepening

Love & Masculine Energy: My Epiphany in the Australian Outback (VIDEO)

June 10, 2020October 6, 2015

♦◊♦ I thought about you while I was on my Outback walkabout adventure. I really did. After all, I was there for your transformational life journey as much as mine. You see, 15 years ago, I left the military at age 26, broken and despairing and utterly lost in the world. I had everything “they”