When Men Can’t Feel … Anything
The great crises of our time for countless men: a persistent incapacity to fully feel our aliveness, and no elder guidance to show us another way.
My New Book ~ “Choose Her Every Day (Or Leave Her)”
“We are so connected the word ‘connected’ doesn’t even make sense.” ~ Rumi ♦◊♦ For over thirty years I’ve been tenaciously throwing myself into the transformational fires of intimate relationship over and over again. For I began a romantic, believing in the popular songs and fairytale movies of my 1980s youth that all promised a … Read more
What Drives A Man To Watch Porn: His 9 Secret Motivations
For this potent drug, a man is his own dealer, and his needle the phone in his pocket.
Your Good Intentions Are (Mostly) Irrelevant When Your Partner Is Hurting
I never understood why the women I loved were so often angry at me. Until one day, in the painful midst of another lover-spat going nowhere, I finally got it …
One Essential Key To Relationship Success (Don’t Trust Your Conclusions)
Not long ago, I just knew my relationship with my fiancé was over.
Intimate Relationship Changes You (Ignore All Advice Saying Otherwise)
“Find someone who loves you as you are” is a wise ideal to lean towards, but make no mistake: You don’t get to stay the same person when you decide to build a life with another human being.
Without A Shared Purpose (Your Relationship Will Fail)
For nearly 3 decades, choosing me as your boyfriend was like strapping yourself into a faulty emotional roller coaster whose wheels would scream and spark before jumping the tracks, offing us both towards an awful demise.
5 Warning Signs You Should Quit Porn … Today!
Is watching porn creating beneficial experiences for your body, mind, relationship(s)? … Or impairing them?
Is Your Relationship Experiencing a ‘Crisis of Connection’?
I recently led a 2-day private coaching intensive for a well-intentioned couple who had ignorantly, innocently, conspired together for years to create a tragic mess of love.
The 1 Misunderstanding That Routinely Kills Relationships
There’s a terrible phenomenon that destroys otherwise good relationships. I call it the “Relationship Death Gap.”